By now, everyone should know that they can't
believe everything they see on the internet. Whether it's a story or a
photo, things should always be taken with a grain of salt when it comes
to the world wide web because, thanks to Photoshop and vivid
imaginations, we can say or do pretty much anything our little hearts
Take the beautiful wedding photo of Rita and Jared Shaw as a perfect example of just how quickly and easily a fake story can come to life. All it took was a misinformed reddit post to cause this couple's special photo to go viral, but not for a reason they would have ever expected.
When Rita Shaw posted this lovely moment from her wedding on Instagram three weeks ago, she probably wasn't surprised with the number of likes it received. After all, it's a stunning photo that obviously captured an extremely meaningful moment for her and her husband. However, I'm sure she didn't expect someone to then post the image on reddit with the caption: "Groomsman hold up paralyzed groom for his wedding."
As I read through the comments from the reddit thread, I started seeing a lot of people calling you-know-what on the story. Rather than a group of men holding up their paralyzed friend so he could give his bride a kiss, users were claiming it was actually a common fraternity pose that symbolized strength, support, and friendship.
Along with her image was the caption: "Happy Founders day to the good Bruhz #RQQ." After looking up #RQQ, I found out that it represented Omega Psi Phi, an international fraternity that was founded in 1911 by Howard University students.
The pose in the photograph is most likely the symbol of strength and unity that reddit users were talking about. According to one user, who had a roommate explain the line pose to them, "[It] serves to reinforce the idea that you can and should hold onto your organization members for support and strength as they will hold onto you."
So, what can we take away from this story? First, don't automatically believe everything you read online — do your research! And secondly, this photo of Mr. and Mrs. Shaw was beautiful and meaningful to begin with. The story and symbolism behind it is amazing and the last thing it needed was some made up caption meant to garner upvotes.
Congratulations to The Shaws on their beautiful wedding. I wish you a lifetime full of happiness, love, and unbreakable support.